I LOVE "I"

Again another post about love, but I'm not really going into that direction anymore. I'm just going to share something about love which is like prelude to love or prequel to a love great story which is in order to love others, we have first love ourselves. So, here I'm starting the post with I love I.

Remember what happened in the the greatest love story ever invented "Romeo & Juliet?  If u don't let me summarize the ending.  Juliet fake his death, then Romeo cannot take it his death then poisoned himself, & then Juliet also end her own life.  Yeah, this is a very romantic but tragic love story.  What is missing in this story is the love towards themselves.  I mean if they really love themselves, why did they even bother to think of ending their own life?

Yeah, I realized that some hopeless romantic might argue with me about this.  You should love your lover more that you love yourself.  That's true love.  I can argue with this.  I mean, we should love everybody more that we love ourselves.  Not just our lover.  We should love our friends, family, and others more that we love ourselves, but that doesn't means that we have to neglected the love for ourselves.  From the love to ourselves, there come self-respect & in any relationship we must respect other but more importantly ourselves.

From another point of view, if I am dying, I don't want to be selfish by wanting death for the person that I love and hope that we will be together in the other side.  So, we we turn the table around, if I see the person that I love die, I know that that person don't want death for me, and want me to move on.  So the suicide thought will never occur in my mind, cause I know that the person that I love want me to be happy.  So, in my opinion Romeo and Juliet is a very selfish love story.  I couldn't bare having the though of someone that I love dying.  

The meet point of the greatest love story and I love I is if Romeo love himself even for a split second, he won't kill himself.  But all of his love goes to Juliet.  He don't love himself for a bit, so he killed himself to be with Juliet.  If he re-think his judgement, and have a sense of respect to his own life, he might be re-thinking his decision to kill himself, and when he decide what to do, Juliet might wake up.  So, it will be a more romantic love story without the involvement of any ghost.

So, I Love I...

P/s: it is 4.14 am here, and I don't know what is right and wrong no more.